[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/vsechno-dovoleno\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/vsechno-dovoleno\/","headline":"V\u0161echno dovoleno?","name":"V\u0161echno dovoleno?","description":"Byli jste sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di p\u0159\u00edsn\u011b vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni, a tak si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, \u017ee svoje vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti nebudete nikdy trestat, budete se sna\u017eit, […]","datePublished":"2025-07-16","dateModified":"2025-07-16","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/56990d361a15c60249588fcd5c65556d1c39f993ac5e20b5abce42fd817b46e8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/56990d361a15c60249588fcd5c65556d1c39f993ac5e20b5abce42fd817b46e8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"majami.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290193_w2076_t1502294445.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290193_w2076_t1502294445.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/vsechno-dovoleno\/","wordCount":420,"articleBody":"Byli jste sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di p\u0159\u00edsn\u011b vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni, a tak si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, \u017ee svoje vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti nebudete nikdy trestat, budete se sna\u017eit, aby m\u011bli bezstarostn\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed a ponech\u00e1te jim absolutn\u00ed svobodu? Mo\u017en\u00e1 to va\u0161i rodi\u010de p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bli s tresty a vy m\u00e1te nyn\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e9 vzpom\u00ednky, ov\u0161em lep\u0161\u00ed je d\u00e1vat si pozor a nespadnout p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch potomk\u016f do druh\u00e9ho extr\u00e9mu.\u00a0LIBER\u00c1LN\u00cd V\u00ddCHOVAD\u011btstv\u00ed by m\u011blo b\u00fdt sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem bezstarostn\u00e9, ale na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b absolutn\u00ed volnost, kdy je v\u0161e dovoleno, zav\u00e1n\u00ed rozmazlenost\u00ed. Liber\u00e1ln\u00ed, tedy svobodomysln\u00fd a velkorys\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt spr\u00e1vn\u00fd. Je p\u0159ece t\u0159eba, aby se d\u011bti samy rozhodly, co cht\u011bj\u00ed d\u011blat a vyrostly z nich tak osobnosti. Ale tam, kde chyb\u00ed \u0159\u00e1d a ur\u010dit\u00e1 pravidla, nast\u00e1v\u00e1 chaos, chyb\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnost na svoje \u010diny a smysl pro povinnost. D\u011bti nev\u00ed, co je dobr\u00e9 a co je \u0161patn\u00e9, nedok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed se v tom orientovat a c\u00edt\u00ed se samy, proto\u017ee jsou samy sob\u011b ponech\u00e1ny.\u00a0V\u00ddCHOVA BEZ HRANICUr\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 pro d\u00edt\u011b i pro rodi\u010de a vlastn\u011b v\u0161echny vychov\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed. Jak to ud\u011blat, aby d\u011bti z\u00e1rove\u0148 k tomu, kdo tyto hranice ur\u010duje, nec\u00edtily nen\u00e1vist? Jde o um\u011bn\u00ed st\u00e1t si za sv\u00fdm vlastn\u00edm jedn\u00e1n\u00edm, tedy b\u00fdt s\u00e1m samostatn\u00fd a pevn\u00fd. Neznamen\u00e1 to d\u011bti odm\u00edtat, ale nepodvolovat se ka\u017ed\u00e9 jejich n\u00e1lad\u011b a v\u0161em jejich po\u017eadavk\u016fm. Proto\u017ee k \u010demu vede v\u00fdchova bez hranic? Absolutn\u00ed volnost z\u00e1rove\u0148 skr\u00fdv\u00e1 jak\u00fdsi odstup: je mi jedno, co bude\u0161 d\u011blat, ale kdy\u017e m\u011b na\u0161tve\u0161, tak t\u011b potrest\u00e1m a podle moj\u00ed n\u00e1lady jednou n\u011bco zak\u00e1\u017eu, jednou povol\u00edm.\u00a0TOUHA PO JASN\u00ddCH PRAVIDLECHUr\u010dit\u011b nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 trestat a zakazovat, l\u00e1mat d\u011btskou v\u016fli a neust\u00e1le napom\u00ednat. To samotn\u00e9 nakonec ukazuje na nejistotu ve vlastn\u00edm chov\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u011bti mus\u00ed c\u00edtit pevnost, proto\u017ee vlastn\u011b neust\u00e1le testuj\u00ed, kam a\u017e m\u016f\u017eou zaj\u00edt. Kdy\u017e jim stanov\u00edte ur\u010dit\u00e9 hranice a dok\u00e1\u017eete, aby je dodr\u017eovaly, pom\u00e1h\u00e1te jim t\u00edm vlastn\u011b vyr\u016fst v samostatn\u00e9 a odpov\u011bdn\u00e9 dosp\u011bl\u00e9 lidi.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u0161echno dovoleno?","item":"https:\/\/www.majami.cz\/vsechno-dovoleno\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]